I used to think mental health self-care after 30 meant bubble baths and face masks. Then I hit 33 and realized my nervous system needed more than cucumber slices. Here’s what nobody tells you: mental health self-care after 30 isn’t about treating yourself. It’s about supporting a nervous system processing three decades of accumulated stress […]
Important Note: This article describes common experiences and patterns. It’s not medical advice or a diagnostic tool. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional. I spent three months thinking I was lazy. Turns out, I had depression in my 30s. Here’s what nobody tells you about depression in your 30s: it
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